# ⚕️ MARRIAGE / RELATIONSHIPS Three most common relationship problems: communication, sex, or finances The #1 predicator of failed marriages is asymmetrical drinking habits Conversation Questions * What would you most like to be complimented on in the relationship? * Where do you think you’re especially good as a person? * Which of your flaws do you want to be treated more generously? * What would you tell your younger self about love? * What do I suspect I might get wrong about you? * What is one incident I would like to apologize to you for? * What is one incident I feel you should apologize to me for? * How have I let you down? [Twenty Ideas on Marriage](http://www.thebookoflife.org/twenty-ideas-on-marriage/) [8 Ways to have a better relationship](https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/03/smarter-living/8-ways-to-have-a-better-relationship-in-2018.htm) [How to Identify Your Partner's "Libido Type" and Get Better In Bed](https://lifehacker.com/how-to-identify-your-partners-libido-type-and-get-bet-1692431142) [How to Ask Your Partner for Sex So They'll Enthusiastically Say Yes](https://lifehacker.com/how-to-ask-your-partner-for-sex-so-theyll-enthusiastica-1727214612) [Porn Literacy](https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/07/magazine/teenagers-learning-online-porn-literacy-sex-education.html) [Sex Positive Reading List](http://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-families-reading-list/) [Girl Sex 101](https://archive.org/details/girlsex1010000moon) book from Alison Moon ## Different ways to flirt * **Playful**: Flirting for fun without any expectations that it will lead to sex or a relationship * **Physical**: Flirting through body language and sexual communication * **Polite**: Flirting through proper manners and nonsexual communication * **Sincere**: Displaying sincere interest in the other person to develop an emotional connection * **Traditional**: Displaying interest through traditional courtship rituals and behaving in ways that are “gentlemanly” or “ladylike”